While I agree with Derek’s points on the second concern, his response to the concerns of Annonymous1 jump the gun. The question’s context is far too vague to start hypothesizing solutions and the clear answer to this is the very essence of relationships via any medium: communication. Whether asked in person, email, or twitter, Anonymous1 needs to establish if their significant other is intentionally flirting or even aware that they are perceived as flirting. Before suggesting solutions, are both members of this couple even fully aware that there is a problem. Reacting to a concern without discussing it with your partner can be one of the most unintentionally damaging acts you can do in a relationship.
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While I agree with Derek’s points on the second concern, his response to the concerns of Annonymous1 jump the gun. The question’s context is far too vague to start hypothesizing solutions and the clear answer to this is the very essence of relationships via any medium: communication. Whether asked in person, email, or twitter, Anonymous1 needs to establish if their significant other is intentionally flirting or even aware that they are perceived as flirting. Before suggesting solutions, are both members of this couple even fully aware that there is a problem. Reacting to a concern without discussing it with your partner can be one of the most unintentionally damaging acts you can do in a relationship.